Children who have at least 1 parent that is incarcerated are more likely to experience poverty, struggle with mental health issues, to have difficulty in school, face homelessness and to follow the pathways of the parent and become engaged with gangs, criminal activity and perhaps be incarcerated themselves. Children of parents that are imprisoned struggle with fear and embarrassment surrounding their parents' confinements and are often teased and bullied by their peers.
If you ask me, a child shouldn't have to suffer because of the poor choices of their parents. Especially during the holidays. The Christian ministry Prison Fellowship, seeks ways to help children deal with having one or more parent in prison. Along with helping the family unit continue to engage and interact as much as possible through letters, email, visitation and special events, Prison Fellowship helps provide counseling for minors of convicted parents as well as summer camp experiences in which children can interact with other children whose parents are incarcerated.
But perhaps my favorite annual event is the Angel Tree. You used to be able to go to the local mall and pick an angel ornament off of the Prison Fellowship Christmas tree. On the back of the Angel was a name of a child, their age and wishes for clothes and toys for the holidays.
I remember one year a child wanted a Dr. Drill n' Fill toy. It was only a couple of days before Christmas and the volunteers didn't know what that toy was. But I remember having one as a kid. It was a dentistry set from Play Doh where you would fill a patient's cavities with silver clay and you could brush the teeth and other things.
We had already already bought some gifts for some of my wife's DSS kids for Christmas. But I just couldn't let that little guy go without a Dr. Drill n' Fill for Christmas. So I promptly took the ornament off the tree, headed off to the nearest store where I knew I could find it and bought it, wrapped it up in one of my patented gift bags with matching tissue paper and gave the gift to the volunteers.
I can't remember the child's name and I never got a thank you card or anything like that. But I hope that my wish fulfillment possibly inspired that little fella to grow up and become a dentist. Or at the very least, practice a lifetime of proper dental hygiene.
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| Not the one I bought for the Angel Tree. |
If such a story is inspiring to you, then consider one of two ways to help. First, you can make a financial contribution here. Or if you are wanting to shop for some toys (and who doesn't?!), check with Prison Fellowship for area churches and religious organizations that are Angel Tree partners by emailing them at info@pfm.org.








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